Martha says: At 75, I’m gradually acknowledging that I’m getting old.
Three years ago I had a prism added to my reading glasses. The eye doctor said
my brain has more trouble converging images from 2 eyes as I get older. In
August I realized the buzzing in my ears wasn’t the sound of insects outdoors. The nurse
practitioner diagnosed it as tinnitus and said my hearing is fine but my aging
brain invents sounds to fill the void when it’s quiet in the house. In September
while volunteering to rebuild the school playground that had deteriorated since
1988, I fell and hurt my back. It stopped hurting after just 2 weeks but I had
to stop dancing for 12 weeks while the T 10 partial compression fracture healed.
Virtual visits with a physical therapist helped me gradually build up my muscles
safely. Now I'm back at Jazzercise in the studio after 2 years of
Jazzercise in my dining room with remote software during Covid. Since I can't control the volume of their music, I’ve begun wearing ear protectors.
January was a difficult time at the New
England Quilt Museum library. When I thought I had 2 weeks off, the director
called to say that building maintenance work required us to immediately remove 2
bookcases and all their books from the library and replace much of the
old furniture. It took most of this year for us to remove that many books
from the collection and catalog and for me to
acknowledge that the removal of clutter makes the space more attractive.
Gradually our volunteer team is returning after 2 years away during Covid and
we're thrilled to have 3 new volunteers on board. The
MassQuilts
documentation team is also continuing to study antique quilts and share their
findings on the
Quilt Index.
When my cat Pumpkin (14) was dying of kidney failure in March, I was her nurse,
took her for euthanasia, dug her grave, and arranged her kitty funeral. That was
a very hard few weeks. We’re down to just one cat now,
Pixel, and he’ll be our
last since Bob is allergic.
When I created this page of quilting projects done in 2022 I was surprised at
how many there were. I continue to find recipients for my quilts so that there
won’t be a growing pile to deal with some day when our sons have to distribute
our collections. Seeing the response of the people who get new quilts is
priceless.
Our 2 weeks at
Timberlock
in August were more relaxing this summer since Bob’s
sister Lee is settled in Assisted Living and doing better. Vacationing in the
same place for 41 years means we get right into the routine and already know
many of the other guests.
After a 3 year delay because of Covid, I had planned to return to Rochester in
early July when I could see many Presberg cousins who would be gathering for
their vacation in the Finger Lakes. Unfortunately, I had to cancel all those
reservations when Bob had to take 2 antibiotics that made him dizzy during a
bout of diverticulitis. I needed to stay home to do all the driving. The rest of
the summer and early fall were very busy so I rescheduled my trip to Rochester
for late October. I had a wonderful time and loved reconnecting with nearly 20 people I had really
missed.
Now it’s winter and I continue my quest to teach all 3 grandkids to ski well
enough to keep up with their parents and see the tops of local mountains before
I get too old to be there with them.
Bob
says:
Another year gone by. As Dave Goulder wrote in the song "The January Man,"
The January man he comes around again in coat and boots of leather
To take another turn and walk along the icy roads he knows so well
The January man is here the start of each and every year
Along the road forever
Except it's 55 degrees here, and every flake that has tried to fall has been
washed away by rain. Climate change, huh...
Last year felt like the year that my body passed its "use by" date. Like so many
people my age, my back has given out. A disc at the base of my spine is gone,
and two vertebrae that were once separated are now rubbing together and pinching
the nerves to both my legs, a condition called "spinal stenosis." I need
quarterly cortisone shots to control the frequent pain, and I can no longer lift heavy
objects, flex my spine, or bend over. I'm learning new body mechanics to
minimize the stress - deep knee bends, or kneeling on one knee, instead of
bending over. I continue to walk 2-3 miles as often as possible, usually with my
friend Jim and his loving Golden Doodles, Button and Zipper. As a result, I've
now met many of the dogs in Carlisle, and I know how to interpret their body
language and play signs. Most of them are friendly, and now I'm friendly too. I
quite like dogs, particularly when someone else takes them home.
My elder sister Lee has settled into life at the
assisted living near us. She's made a friend, taken to exercising a bit, and keeps herself busy with
reading, watching old movies, and fuming about politics. Like many congregate
care settings, her facility experienced a Covid outbreak when the Omicron surge
first happened. Fortunately, constant testing and rapid response contained it,
and Lee did not catch the disease. She has not experienced any further strokes,
just the annoyances and indignities that come with old age, which are many.
Lee's ex-husband Dave, and his wife Sandy, with whom we remain good
friends, had to flee their house on Sanibel Island when Hurricane Ian hit.
Although much of the island was badly damaged, their house was modern and had
been built to withstand a Category 5 storm. All the items in the basement were
lost to storm surge, but the living quarters on the first floor were relatively
unscathed, and they have been able to move back in. I'd like to visit them in
2023, if I can bring myself to get on an airplane. Maybe when the winter Covid
surge subsides.
We lost our smaller cat, Pumpkin, after a long illness. Eventually, she became
too weak to eat, drink, or even stand up, and we had to say goodbye. She's
buried in a clearing off the front yard, with some rocks as a headstone.
Pixel,
our other cat, didn't seem to notice or care, but he became noticeably more
affectionate. The Fancy Feast regimen we started to tempt Pumpkin to eat has
stuck, and I'm now familiar with Chewy for ordering cat food in bulk. Pixel has
returned to the food preferences of his youth - fish cat food and the dregs of
my coffee ice cream. He'll accept vanilla too, but fruit flavors are Right Out.
My computer work has continued unabated. By the time the wave of Afghan refugees
abated in the spring, I had refurbished and delivered more than 80 donated
computers to refugee organizations and families. Now a new wave of refugees -
from Ukraine, Venezuela, and Central America - has started, and requests for
computers are arriving again. In all, I've dealt with more than 530 computers
since I started keeping records in 2013. I've also continued to help seniors in
Carlisle and adjacent towns with their computer issues. Mostly, these haven't
been serious, but several seniors were victimized by computer scams. This led me
to create and deliver a lecture on avoiding computer scams to seniors in Concord
and Carlisle.
My anime team had a good year too, although three team members in Asia
contracted Covid in the fall and early winter. Fortunately, they all recovered.
Some long running projects got finished or restarted, and I expect to clear the
team's "to do" list early next year.
My simulator work saw a sharp uptick after a long pause. Curious users trying
out different features or debugging new software on the simulators uncovered a
number of bugs. I released a new version of the simulator in December. I am
still the "go to" guy for understanding and fixing bugs in simulated hardware,
although I leave maintenance and enhancement of the user interface and software
infrastructure to others.
That's it. Pixel is at my feet, nudging me to feed him again, so I have to go.
Wait, that's exactly how my blurb last year ended too...

Ben says: Happy New Year! Gabriel started middle-school this year
and is
enjoying the increased autonomy and intellectual stimulation. He
joined the math team and was able to bike to school until winter
happened.
Ezra is in third grade and completed his first season of club soccer.
His team is learning to work as a unit. He was excited to watch the
World Cup this year and adopted Argentina as his team.
This year we shipped
X-Plane 12.0
- it was a long and difficult
release for us, with strong competitive pressure from Microsoft
re-entering the simulation space. I am relieved to see it behind us.
Lori continues to work for the FDA as a pharmaceutical inspector, both
training and on-site inspections.
We lost our cat, Nublet this fall - before Thanksgiving she went out
and we have not seen her since; given the wildlife in our area, we
don't think she survived. We adopted her in 2008 when we lived in DC when
someone brought her into the veterinary office she worked at. Nublet loved
people and spent a lot of time flopped out on my keyboard demanding
attention, but she was always a bit wild, and years ago we gave up
trying to keep her inside. We miss her dearly.

Jonathan says: 2022 raced by. Elijah turned 7 and entered first grade,
which he's enjoying a great deal. Over the summer, he built his first video game
("Hidden Kitten Pictures"). We said goodbye to our dog
Cerberus at 15 years old,
lost to kidney failure. To keep the house from getting too quiet, we've adopted
3 kittens, Luna, Vader, and Mittens, so in place of the clack of puppy claws we
have the thumping of a pack of galloping kittens. Gandalf and Kaya were not
entirely amused by the newcomers, but have accepted the new situation
eventually. Larissa continues to lead the Sapphire team at
BorisFX. Jonathan
wrapped up his work on the
Hearthstone project at Demiurge studios and is now
contributing to another very big game (that he's not allowed to name).